Nature vs. Nurture

I’m struggling a bit right now with my son’s parents…in particular his mom. She is making it pretty clear that she wants nothing to do with me and that hurts. I don’t want to erase her from his life or take her place, but I do want to forge a relationship with my son and she appears to be trying to sabotage my efforts rather than embracing that I was ever a part of his life. It hurts!

I read this post over at Production not Reproduction and I love her attitude. It shouldn’t have to be an us against them thing and I wish more adoptive parents would realize that!

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~ by Desi on February 11, 2010.